MARRIAGE….A RESPONSIBILITY TO THE RESPONSIBLY PREPARED
I’ve come to discover from this point of view… you may consider it a first person point of view or a third person point of view but which ever point you view it from…. I’ve discovered that MARRIAGE IS A RESPONSIBILITY MEANT FOR RESPONSIBLE AND PREPARED MINDS.
DO you see it this way?… The feelings you get When you fall in love is not the same you got on your wedding day. They are two different incident so they are not the same. The same feeling during courtship is different from that of marriage… you can only have More or Less depending on how you handle it AND what is driving you. When you are single, you are SINGLE!But when you are married.. my dear you’re tied to so many things that spell out that you’re not single.
You have a spouse to care for, think of, worry about, show love to, argue with, feed, satisfy, pray for, pray with, etcetera. As time proceed, you have kids to be around you, whom you are to care for, show love to, feed, train, encourage, nurture, discipline, etcetera. Before you think about yourself, you have to think about them( spouse AND kids ). After thinking about your parents, you’ll think about your in-laws. The better it is for these ones the better your chance of success.
In marriage, you have to be selfless AND go the extra miles. Therefore, Take the extra oil with you. Be PREPARED!!! ONLY THE RESPONSIBLE PEOPLE WHO ARE PREPARED CAN CHALLENGE THE CHALLENGES THAT ARISE IN THEIR MARRIAGE WITH THE READINESS AND DETERMINATION TO STAY AND BUILD IT SUCCESSFULLY WHILE THE IRRESPONSIBLE OR UNPREPARED ONES GIVE UP AT THE FACE OF STORMY DIFFICULTIES BY GOING AWAY AND THROWING THEIR MARRIAGE CERTIFICATE THROUGH THE DOOR OF DIVORCE. (NOT IN ALL CASES. THEREFORE , I Pray GOD Will Help As Many That Needs Divine Help In Their Marriage. It Will Not Fall Apart And God In His Love Will Revive Every Love Drained Home In Jesus Name. Amen )
For those already in it..Don’t give up. pray for it…praise GOD for your home… with GOD on your side you will succeed. For the singles….. Before you put your pen to sign on the contract…TAKE EXTRA OIL ( WISDOM, UNDERSTANDING, KNOWLEDGE ) WITH YOU. REMEMBER IT’S NOT YOU BUT YOUR(,RELATIONSHIP ) WORLD TO BUILD AND ESTABLISH. TAKE HEED.
Abayomi Sarah preaches